2014-08-21

Chinese Women Place More Criteria on Home Than on Husband

This article says marrying and buying a home are two big events in life, which one should come first? A matchmaker provides some data: men with homes have a much higher success rate in finding a mate and 70% of women have home ownership as a condition. In fact, many women seemed to have stricter conditions for the house than for the men.

结婚买房是人生两件大事 先结婚还是先买房?
Married, buy a house, originally two great thing in life, but once these two things are tied together, it becomes a dilemma. In the end is to buy a house and then get married, buy a house or get married again, "marriage" and "room" discussion on young people has become a necessary path towards marriage a hurdle.

According to a matchmaking company statistics, its members in a house dating highest percentage of success, when more than 70% of women registered marriage, the house is an indispensable condition. In some ways, said that women's emphasis on the house, and even higher than the blind date.

House = marriage? Marriage, the house is more important, I'm afraid everyone has a steelyard.

"Marriage is not to buy a house, that is bullying."

Holders of view: first buy a house after marriage

Though there have been so many words, "marriage is not to buy a house, that is bullying," do not buy true even if the bullying? That would not, but one thing is for sure, do not buy a house, it means the loss of some innate superiority, destined to each other in love, bought a house less than a minute so emboldened. Even if you do not feel it is okay to buy a house, but that does not mean your other half would be so "reasonable", not to mention your future wife's mother a.

"There is no house, talk about marriage will be very realistic, so you must first buy a house after marriage." This is the vast majority of the 80 most practical approach. From the concept point of view, "first home, after a family" is still recognized by most people. Lee, who lives in Guihua Village believes that the house is shelter in place, so he insisted on using their own savings to be married son bought a suite for use as child marriage room .

Lee held the view with most young people get married first and then buy a house with a common starting point, to buy a house is to give the marriage insurance for the future of life to provide a quality assurance. "China's people, a deep understanding of the home, with the family, have to rely on, will care, which is why I strongly urge my husband had some reason to buy a house." Buy to hold as the first point of marriage and actions practitioner, Ms. Xu then people are more inclined to emotional aspects.

Su reported little new in the actual survey found that those who insist that marriage must have their own house young families with better economic conditions in general, has a stable job, a strong sense of belonging to the family, for the pursuit of higher material life. In their view, marriage is not a trifling matter, is a lifelong marriage, the house is a symbol of home.

Others believe that the house is material security of love. To buy a house and then get married, live in the future will be at ease, especially for the woman concerned. Moreover, the composition of the family had a house, a couple in order to cultivate the love of "crystallization." And from another perspective, do house slaves can be seen as a temper, but for the future of the family, this is a play.

However, in the actual process, a lot of 80, as well as some of the parents in the marriage room of choice, blind comparisons, the blind pursuit of comfort required to buy the big house, bought the lot, or even that "no house can not get married," etc., resulting in live wedding room comfort, but a huge amount of loans a month for overload and life pressures, lower quality, but affect the feelings between husband and wife, they still have to "fiscal capacity and the line."

"I was living with him, not living with a house."

Holders of view: first get married again to buy a house

Some people insist to buy a house after the first marriage, it was the "Emotion light room", especially in the high prices under pressure, many young people began to change ideas, choose temporarily to buy a house, live with their parents or renting.

"The situation at home he is very clear, certainly no money to finance my parents to buy a house and I have some savings, borrowed some relatives and friends again, Chouqi down payment money should be no problem. But now since we intend to get married, wedding photographs , and other wedding feast spending is spending a small fortune. If we buy a house, then it is temporarily no money to get married. "Some time ago, Mr. Yu has been a tangled issue, in the end is to buy a house or get married?

Yu calculations, his monthly income of $ 6,000 cost of marriage for the time being negligible, if he wanted to Suzhou to buy a house, then at least to prepare more than two hundred thousand yuan down payment, but the money is not enough even in the city good location areas, parks, etc. buy a house, but it more than two hundred thousand yuan down payment, is all his capability.

"A total price of 900,000 yuan house, loans 600,000, the monthly repayment amount in more than five thousand, equivalent to taking up more than half my income." Serious decline in the quality of life is evident, along with came the serious psychological bondage, any entertainment and leisure must be based also on the mortgage as the premise, once lofty and ambitious ideals, will be the reality slowly while away. "Think about it some heart powerless."

After discussion, Mr. Yu and his girlfriend decided not to buy a house. "I think we improperly house slaves okay? Renters, provincial money to go traveling, and even around the world, or leave to go to buy a house after a sufficient in quantity."

Although Yu had not put the idea to say to the wife's mother to hear, but he was confident to convince the wife's mother, not to mention his girlfriend standing at his side, "I was living with him, not with the house of life." Yu girlfriend case said.

Su reported little new hundred two: higher precious love marriage room price

The nature of marriage is two people's feelings, sexual gratification come together, the house is its external conditions, should belong icing on the cake. If you are feeling good, this is Jin, with the house is a flower, and should not be regarded as a necessary condition. So for're ready to buy a house 80 later said, do not think in one step, the older people in general into the community soon and often limited economic strength, although the family can help, but in one hand and hard work to the world and others give, has essentially The difference, which is particularly important for enhancing a person's sense of responsibility and self-motivated. So, buyers do not necessarily dream too full, select the wedding house, or to the economic conditions of both practicality and living standards.

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